In the past couple of months I
interviewed about 30 engaged and newly wed couples to learn how they had
met. What I observed was
interesting; I could recognize some consistent patterns that I would like to
share here with you:
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Most couples who marry in their 20’s met in
college or church.
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Most couples who marry in their 30’s met at work.
·
Only two couples met online. They both met
within the first month of registration.
·
One couple was introduced by a friend; they were
both from traditional Hispanic families.
My conclusions from this very random survey:
My conclusions from this very random survey:
·
If you haven’t met someone in college, you have
high chances to marry in your 30’s.
·
To make the most of online dating, it is useful
to be very clear on who you are and what you want. If you haven’t found someone
within a few weeks of registration, it might not be the right medium for you.
·
The American society could learn from traditional societies to be more
involved in matchmaking in their community.
·
No matter if you met in college, at work, or
online – luck/serendipity is still a big factor when it comes to meeting the
right person.
